Date:	2005-01-24 00:31
Subject:	I require an advice
Security:	Public
Mood:	distressed

Ok. This is a strange one. I don't need advice along the lines of 'talk to her about it'; that much is obvious. I'm looking for practical suggestions.

There's this girl. I've fancied her for a while and have been really quite stressed about the whole thing. However - happy day! - it turns out that she really likes me too. This is cool because she's sweet, cool, different, full of life. And she's hot. Very, very hot. Problem is that... I just can't make myself be interested at all.

I've been stressed lately: there's a massive amount of work and the stress of applying for an MPhil. I haven't been eating (hardly at all some days) and have been sleeping fairly badly. The other symptom (either of the stress itself or the poor eating and sleeping) is that I've completely lost my sex drive. I've not been thinking about sex; I haven't been fantasizing. ( TMI )

This is more of a problem because she's waiting for me to do something about the relationship. I was dancing with her last night and really I should have been being touchy-feely but I just wasn't interested.

What do I do? Change my diet? Get rid of the stress at all costs? Go out with her and get drunk? Herbal remidies? Chinese medicine? Aphrodisiacs? I'm willing to try whatever. I'm usually desperate and horny and now there's a girl who actually wants me (her friend actually implored me to sleep with the girl) and I don't care. The fates have played one trick too many. Help!